Escort-Approved Tips to Level Up Your Sex Game

Think you're a top-tier lover already? We love the confidence, but even the best could use a few pointers from professionals. And who better to dish out advice than the girls who see it all, do it all, and know exactly what makes a night memorable for all the right reasons?

Sex Tips From Escorts

That’s right, our beautiful Leeds escorts are here to help you up your game. These tips are guaranteed to help you stand out in the bedroom:

1. Don’t Rush the Warm-Up

You know what’s sexy? Anticipation. According to research published in the Archives of Sexual Behavior, couples who prioritise foreplay report significantly higher levels of satisfaction. Take your time. Kiss longer. Touch more. Talk dirty. Build tension until it’s unbearable.

One of our escorts, Jess, put it perfectly during a post-booking chat: “The guys who get us dripping aren’t the ones who dive straight in. It’s the ones who tease and build it up like they know the value of patience.”

2. Give Good Head (Yes, Really)

Oral isn’t optional. Want a standing ovation (and maybe a second round)? Learn how to give head like it’s your superpower. For women, it's about rhythm, consistency, and paying attention to the clit like it's the star of the show. For men, don’t just go down there like you're fumbling in the dark, ask what he likes, make eye contact, use your hands.

As one of our escorts Jessie said while adjusting her lipstick: “If you treat oral like a chore, we can tell. Make it look like you’re obsessed and we’ll be thinking about it for days.”

3. Communication is Sexy AF

This one’s underrated. According to a 2020 survey by Lovehoney, 68 percent of people said better communication led to better sex. Don't grunt like a caveman or lie there in silence. Ask questions. Give compliments. Say what you like. Ask her what she wants.

Charlii, a regular face on our bookings page, laughed while recounting a date night: “He whispered, 'Tell me what you need' and boom, we were off like rockets.”

4. Change It Up

Same moves. Same bed. Same boring. Mix it up a little, will you? Try a new position. A new location. Add a toy. Try edging. Hell, even a different playlist can make it feel like a whole new vibe.

One of our more adventurous girls,  Alondra, once told us over wine: “He asked if I’d ever done it on a kitchen island. I hadn’t. But now I’m a big fan of granite.”

5. Learn the Art of Aftercare

You’ve done the deed, great. But you’re not done yet. A cuddle. A drink of water. A cheeky compliment. The small stuff goes a long way. It shows you care about the experience, not just the climax.

An escort with a loyal following, Letty, summed it up: “Aftercare turns a good shag into a great memory. If you disappear like Batman, don’t expect a repeat booking.”

6. Smell Nice, Look Nice, Be Nice

Sounds obvious, right? But trust us, you’d be surprised. A 2019 study from the University of Kent found that scent plays a major role in sexual attraction. So take that shower, splash on a bit of something delicious, trim the hedges, and iron your shirt. Presentation matters.

As one of our girls, Anastasia casually dropped into conversation: “The guy smelled like vanilla and vetiver. I’d have married him on the spot.”

Ready to Practice What You’ve Learned?

Feeling inspired? Good. Theory is great, but nothing beats hands-on experience. Why not put your new skills to the test with one of our playful, open-minded, and totally stunning escorts?

Head over to our gallery and find someone who makes your pulse race and give us a call so we can set-up a date between the two of you!